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My boyfriend just got back from Iraq. I missed him and with him being gone for 7 months was very hard for me. He is about to leave again in January to ship across the world. Which he will be gone for 6-8 months. We are both into each other a lot. When we started dating I knew it would be like this but now that I am see first hand what its like its like I dont get to see him that much. He still has about 2 more years in the Marine Corp and he could go back to Iraq and he was telling me the other day that he was thinking about relisting again. I love him and want to be with him. But what if he asks me to marry him cause I kn ow the question is about to be asked.
then youve got to tell him straight up, that if you guys do in fact get married, then he really should think about the way that you feel, and what you want out of the realtionship. tell him that you would like him to be around,d and that you dont like worrying about him all the time. but i know exaclty how it is to be scared all thr time liek that- my cousin is in the navy, and every day im scareed that somethig might happen to him if he goes into iraq. but the best way to handle this would beto tell him exaclty how you feel. he loves you to death- he will definetely understand. really hope i helped. good luck.
(Rating: 5) good luck to you and your cousin