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I'm a med student, so health related questions I can usually answer pretty well. I also like to think I'm somewhat decent at giving advice. I can also give you an honest opinion."I love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen or, who I'm gonna meet, or where I'm gonna wind up. I figure life's a gift and I don't intend on wasting it. You don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next."
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i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person?
ok well first off, you are definetly NOT a horrible person. everyone makes mistakes that's life.
some symptoms of miscarriage are blood clots, or a sac-like structure is seen. their are others but i don't really know them. if you want to know more about miscarriages then you can go to google and type in "miscarriages" or "symptoms of miscarriages"
lastily, how to tell people that you're pregnant. you said your family is good friends with his. if their that good of friends they would help you both with the baby, if you had it. you should just tell your parents that you're really sorry and regret doing this. tell your parents everything you said here because you're going to have to tell them sooner or later. hiding your pregnancy is NOT good for your health at all!
good luck!
if you need any other help let me know
ill be glad to help! ♥
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well there are many hospitals. im not sure their is a specific one because i don't really know where you live and what's around you. try asking like a friend that lives where you that you trust. if you can drive (you said you were 16 but i dont know if you have a license) then you can drive to the main hospital and ask them, they will probably know something.
hope i helped!
(Rating: 5) well, i read on a site that signs of a miscarriage are how you feel right before you get your period, and the symptoms of pregnancy go away. i havent been having morning sicknes anymore lately, and ive been getn cramps like i do before i start my period. my boobs arent swollen or nething anymroe either, and my back doesnt hurt anymore.
im really thinkin i might be havin one.im just scared. do you know if there is any kind of hospital i can go to that my guardian doesnt have to be there?