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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.

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my boyfriend and i got pretty close last night to a home run but i got scared and froze up what should i do to calm down and go with the flow

sex scared

as lame as its gonna sound - you were NOT ready to go that far. if theres any tensing up, or any feeling uncomfortable- thn youre NOT ready. dont force yourself into something you feel wierd about doing. trust me when i tell you this- it might seem so- but it is SOOOOOOOOOO not worth it in the end. wait until you can feel completely at home with that person and not have to worry about feeling guilty, or embarassed or ashamed about anything. and mostly- dont let him force you into anything you dont want to do. wether you are ready or not- doing so will change your relationhip- wether yuo like it or not. sometimes for the worse. just think about what your doing. hope i helped .be careful.

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(Rating: 5) thanx i talked to him and i think we're working it out
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