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okay I was talking to this guy I'm starting like a lot now, and we were talkin tonight. He called me baby and I asked him if he was callin me baby or A BABY. and he said he called me baby and I go why? Not like I mind, but I wanna know, and he's like because I wanted to.Thennn;; he said he was glad his yahoo finally worked because he was gettin mad because he couldn't talk to me, so mad he was gunna cry, and I go awe you were gunna cry just because we couldn't talk? I feel special and he goes uou are.... and he knows I like him... and I was like you need to want a girlfriend, and he's like I have to much stuff to do, and i'm always busy so I'd never get to see or talk to them so thats why I dont want a girlfriend right now...
and I feel so foolish for saying that... but I mean does it sound like he'd ever really want me for a girlfriend? or was he just being nice? what do you think? we've known each other since 2nd grade and now I'ma sophmore and he's a freshman ((He failed)) but yeah he used to like me and I didnt like him... sooo did time change things like did tables turn... me likin him... but not viseversa... orr does he like me? is there a chance??
please? thanks so much! (link)
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I can't offer much... But here it goes:
You say he failed to pass to the next year. And he says that he has too much stuff to do. To me, that sounds like he's telling you he needs to focus on his schoolwork, rather than get a girlfriend like so many other guys his age are probably doing. Don't take that the wrong way, though. What he's showing is responsibility, and at his age it's pretty unique to see dedication like that. So this could very well mean that he's worth it! From the way he speaks to you, I would say that he does like you. His priorities for the moment seem to be school, but that doesn't mean his feelings for you are nonexistant.
Instead of just wondering if he likes you or not, try and find out, or show him that you care for him rather than just saying it outright. Remember: actions speak louder than words. Do things for him like offer to help him with his school work (since you're a grade higher he might appreciate that). Be there for him; but if he can't define what you and he are at the moment, then don't worry: just focus on being a part of his life.
Best of luck! ^_^
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thanks that really helped and made me smile!
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