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Hi everyone, I'd like to hear your perspective(this question is especially for girls but guys are welcome to answer too). My problem is that I feel disgustingly and frighteningly ugly. My own reflection upsets me when I look in the mirror, and I find the idea of sex really scary. I've tried it a couple of times, but the guys I've been with have been really greedy and impatient and made me feel even uglier. They kept on going on about how pretty other girls were, and I think they just wanted me because I'm so insecure. Has anyone else been through this , and come out all right the other end(e.g. in a happy relationship, or just happier with themselves). Some days I don't even want to leave the house, I feel I look so bad.
Thanks in advance(22/f BTW). (link)
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I think everyone goes through a time in their life where they feel insecure about themselves. I know I have. I realized that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Just because some guys don't think you are beautiful doesn't means others won't.
In the end I became happy with myself and I also have a really loving boyfriend now. So that helps a lot. Even if I didn't have a boyfriend I would still have high self esteem because I have confidence in myself. I'm not saying that you should be conceited but I am saying that you have to know for yourself that you are beautiful. That way when a guy comes up to you and says that you are ugly you will know that isn't true.
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Thank you so much, your advice really helped.
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