Hey, I am Cj from Belize. Some may also call me Christopher. Others call me crazy.
You probably never heard of my country before but that is alright. Check for it on a map, it is right under mexico. And please don't direspect my country. Many of my ancestors have fought to make the country independent. ANd so did my grandparents and my father. And when I am old enough, I shall give back to my country its rightful due.
I will answer your questions according to what I think, not what you want to hear or what others are saying. I think for myself. And If you don't or can't think for yourself....
stop wasting your time in life.
And if you hate my advice, please explain why so that I can improve on it. Don't tell me that I am stupid and that you hate me, because I don't care what you think of me.
E-mail: power_cjwaight@yahoo.com
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Location: Belize
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Age: 16
AIM: my aim is to be # 1
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Ok, so I have always hated my highschool, and thought that everyone in it was a shallow dimwit! But I recently got advice to try to get to now some people, mingle & be social, and maybe Iäll start liking it more. Right, so I did. I started talking to these two guys, who are best friends, pretty popular and pretty much WANTED by every girl in school, but I just wanted to be friends, right..so I started talking to these guys for the first time yesterday, and it was just for 15 minutes, helping them study, but I felt an immediate attraction to both of them, one of them is outgoing, loud, charming..and oh so popular, and the other one is also pretty popular (because he's hott) but really shy, quite, and looks pretty insecure. Now, the thingh is the're both BEST FRIENDS, and I would never start flirting with two bff that could end up terrible! But I know I'm gonna start liking these guys, so I would like to decide WHICH ONE to like, and just go for him, flirt with him, instead of with both of them, because what if they both end up liking me..that could be terrible!! So how do you decide which one to like? And also, what would be hard is that they both like different type of girls, so its better to just focus on one of the guys..15/f thank you! (link)
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you met them for 1 day, you need more time to make a decision. Just continue with your original plan, try being friends with both of them. Soon enough, you will see you prefer one over the other. This decision must come from within, not from a friend, especially since we don't know these guys.
And if they both like different types of girls, thats a good thing. Just remember to be yourself, that way the one who like YOU you can go for, you don't want someone to like you for someone who you are trying to be, otherwise you will go back to your original state of hating school. And maybe try to meet a third guy, one you know that all will happen is "just friends".
See what happens then ask us again in about a week or two.
Good luck
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