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Hey,I'm here to answer to your every command. Okay, not really, but yeah, I don't know what else to say here other than Cavie owns you, too!
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Is it wrong that I never tell my "best friends" anything anymore?


Whenever I do tell them something, they end up telling their other really good friend who tells someone else, who then tells other people and the next thing I know, I'm walking into Best Buy and the guy at the register asks me about what I did with who at what party a few weekends ago. True story..that really did happen. Kinda funny but I was pissed as a mofo.


Now that I don't talk to them about anything serious, they get all mad. But why should I tell them things when the rest of the world is just going to find out about it?


I don't want to loose them as friends because they're still fun and everything so I just figured okay, I'll still hang out with them but not tell them anything that I would rather keep between us. But, turns out that they don't like that.


What should I do? Just ditch them?
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People have many different personalities and need many different people to fit those. What I would do is stay with them and have fun (don't let them know there's something you aren't telling them). They can be like your party girls/guys, they people you go crazy with. However, its a good idea to have at least one or two really good friends who you can talk to and be serious with who are trustworthy. If your "best friends" don't accept the fact that you are not going to tell them everything, then maybe it is time to move on.


Rating: 5
yeah, I tell my sister just about everything now.




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