Hey,I'm here to answer to your every command. Okay, not really, but yeah, I don't know what else to say here other than Cavie owns you, too!
Member Since: April 22, 2006
Answers: 144
Last Update: August 17, 2006
Visitors: 11248
Favorite Columnists
HipYaHop1213
|
| |
|
i have known my this girl ashley since like 1st grade we were like best friends up until the summer going into eigth grade we had so much fun together we never stopped laughing and with my other friends we grew apart but nothing wood ruin are friendship or atleast thats what i thought during the summer going into 8th grade we had a HUGE fight like it was crazy but the weird thing is i dont remember what its about or who started it but it was big so big that its almost then end of 8th grade and even when i walk by her in the hall there is anger in are eyes we havent even talked since the fight and were going to high school next year and i really wanna just be friends again but i dont no what to do i refuse to talk 2 her because then it would be to acword so i need to no what to to 2 be friends with her again other then some cheesey answer like talk it out should i even try to be her friend anymore idk please help!!! (link)
|
Here are some of my experiences and maybe you can use what I did to help you...
Most recent-My friend and I got in a huge fight over a guy (some stupid silly guy, I know). We walked around both with tears in our eyes (she'd break down at her softball game, I'd have a fit at my track meet, we'd both loose control during science class) and nothing our other friends could say would bring us back together. Well, today, I finally missed her so much that when we were both online, I just said "Hi, is it possible to be friends again?" and we are now back to being pretty good buddies. Our think our friendship has even grown because of it. So maybe, you could say something online, but be careful because things online can be more easily misintreperted.
A while ago-My best friend "forever" and I got in a fight and our situation was similiar to yours. One day, I missed her so much, so I called her and just started talking. I filled her in on every detail since we had stopped talking and told her how much she meant to me. Although it took her awhile, we are friends again, though not best friends like we used to be.
And last year-My friends got into a fight. It was like three of my awesome friends verse three of my other awesome friends with only me and my best friend in the situation above in the middle. There was a lot of hate going around and many emails were sent. Most of them were fowarded to me. Eventually, I got so mad at them that I snapped and told both sides that they were being stupid and overreacting. Finally, they realized they were and I fowarded apologies to me to them so everyone knew each other was sorry.
Now those would only work if you are willing to talk to her, but communication is a very important key to a friendship, espeicialy a best friendship. If you can't talk to her, while i hate to be the one who says this, I don't thin kthere's a good chance for you guys to be friends again.
|
|