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17/f. Recently I found out that my boyfriend had kissed his best friend about 2 months ago. Found out from a source other than him. As far as I know, it was a quick thing that he regretted afterwards, a slip. I'm not really mad that it happened, but I'm kind of hurt that my boyfriend wouldn't tell me, we're always very open with eachother about everything and I've told him before that he can tell me things like that without me being irrational. I'm wondering if you think I should ask him about it? He's never given me a reason not to trust him before, and I'm pretty sure I know why/how it happened, I just don't know whether to bring it up with him.
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Hmm, tough one. Some people might say to talk to him so he realizes it's not going to slide and so he knows he did something wrong but you won't totally flip over it, yet, if it's in the past, it might not be worth getting in a big fight over. If you really want an honest relationship I would bring it up though by saying, "Hey, I heard ------ through the grapevine and I was wondering if it was true or not. I won't be mad I'm just a little hurt that you didn't tell me before."
much ♥
Christina
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