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Q: all of my best friends have boyfriends and theyre always so busy with them that i get left out of everything. theyve stopped being such good friends we dont really talk much and when i do they dont listen. its really stressful and i dunno im not jealous of them im happy they have someone but shouldnt they still care about me? they dont know what its like to be in my situation and when i try to explain it to them they just shut me out. what do i do?
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i know exactly how you feel. My three best m8s have boyfriends and i always feel left out because i dont. your friends r gonna want time alone wiv their bfs and gonna wanna do double datin n stuff wiv each other and i know its horrible wen you cant get involved, especially if they dont even listen to you! Try and get them on thier own without their other halfs and explain calmly how you know they have other things going on in their lives at the moment but you are feeling really left out. Explain that they dont have to choose you over thier bfs but that they need to remember that you need them too. Maybe you cud suggest having girly days out now and again and make some new friends by joining a club or something. That way, if you are feeling left out, you will have other friends who may not have bfs and dont have that commitment.
Finally if they do not realise how alone they are making you feel, write them a letter sayin evrything you are feeling and if they still dont listen, mayb you should think of making new friends who do apretiate you and make you feel involved.
hope i have helped,
Kerry x
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that was the best advice ive gotten about this. thank u so much!
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Hi, my name is kerry and i am a student in college. I would love to pursue a career as an advice columnist as i love to listen to people's problems and advise them on what to do. I am not judgemental and i enjoy helping people, in fact my other possible career choice would be in psychiatry or pediatrics. The main reason i registered on this website is to gain experience of giving good advice and see if this career is for me, as well as helping those who i can :D
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Gender: Female Location: UK Occupation: student Age: 16 Member Since: April 22, 2006 Answers: 20 Last Update: April 30, 2006 Visitors: 2554
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