Hey everyone, my name is Jordan. Im going to be a sophomore at Oklahoma State University this year, currently studying Hotel and Restaurant Management. I graduated with a 3.42 GPA from Cinco Ranch High School in Katy, Texas, my home of ten years. I am a singer, a cook, a brother, a son, a friend, an employee, and a student. I have alot of background with problems with friends, parents, siblings, teachers (long stories), employers, and of course, with myself. But ask anything you want, if I can help just one person, than I've made a difference, and I'll be happy! Please rate me based on the advice I give. I want to know if I need to change anything! Thanks to everyone who has rated me so far! I'm sorry about my period of inactivity on this site, school, my girlfriend, and other aspects of my personal life have kept me away for longer than I wanted, but I'm back and ready to answer your questions!
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ok my boyfriends best friend(johhny) is a really good friend of mine also but we are just friends and that is it!! well last night i had a dream that i did some ....."not so nice" things with johnny and now i cant talk to johnny, and i kinda feel bad, if i tell my boyfriend than im scared he will get mad but this dream really bothered me to were i cant talk to johnny, i mean i dont want to brake up with my current boyfriend its just this dream bugged me..do i tell my boyfriend and his friend or what do i do? (link)
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I think probably the most important thing to remember in this situation is that dreams are just that, dreams. There are some psychological perspectives and even religious perspectives that say that dreams have special meanings, messages your subconscious is trying to tell you. However, in this case, I doubt your dreams tell you what you think they mean. It could just be a subconscious signal that you need more attention from your boyfriend, and in the dream, you got the attention (perhaps not in the way you might want) from Johnny. Then again, it could be a small sign that you might be attracted in some small way to Johnny. I know these are two possible situations that you may not want to think about, but they could be very real. But not talking to Johnny is not the answer, it could only complicate the problem. If this is a one time dream, which it sounds like it is, then it could just be the sign of an idle mind. But if it starts recurring, I'd say more than one or two more times, you may need to invest sometime into exploring your feelings for Johnny, and exploring possible problems in your relationship. My advice, for now, is to just keep the dream to yourself. There is no need to possibly upset your boyfriend, and also no need to not talk to Johnny. If your dream included what I think it might have, you might have just been slightly aroused while you were asleep, which would explain alot.
Best wishes, Jordan
jordan.j.hunter@okstate.edu
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