My bff (L) told me that my other bff (S) was talking about me. L tells me a lot when S is talking about me, and L told me I can't tell anyone, especially S that she told me or that I know. I know if I did tell S, L would get really mad at me and I don't need that right now. I don't want to loose her trust. So, my question is, what should I do? I'm tired of S acting all goody goody like shes the greatest friend in the world to me when she's not. Should I act differently toward her, or, mainly, how can I hint at what I know? Like say, "I HAAATE when people talk about me," hinting to her, but something better than that. Fives for answers. Thanks.
well, try to avoid her when shes acting all "goody-goody" and focus on her better qualities. I dont know of any friendships that didnt involve some gossip so unless she says something really mean about you, dont confront her about it. i really wish you good luck and i hope all that drama stops.
- allie :)
at least i tried to help.
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You didn't answer my question. I asked how I can hint about it or stop it, not to just "deal with it".
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