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ok im 13/f and one of my friends have been "messing around" lately but i wont have sex with him without a condom. the problem is my mother stil thinks im a virgin. i dont know how to get birth control or condoms without my mom finding out. in the area i live in there is only 2 small gas stations around which both carry condoms but i have a feeling my mom would find out about me buying them, i wouldnt be so worried about her finding out if the guy was 16. i have had sex with him before and ended up missing my period for 2 months! are there any ideas on how to get protection?
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Tell they guy that you won't go all the way without protection and have him go get it. I know the whole world will tell you this but, my bff has had sex once before and other things, anyways she ended up telling her parents because she got caught smoking and told her dad that her other friend had sex with her boyfriend and then told him about herself. Anyways you having sex hurts everyone around you. I was so upset to find out she did it. I am not trying to stop you I just want to make sure you know even if you are physically ready mentally I don't think you are. Are you ready to have a baby? Are you ready to tell your mom your pregnant? Are you ready to lose this man when he says he will help you raise a child? I know that this is all just a possiblity but it is a big possibilty. BIG. So just be ready. Best of luck to you.


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thank u i am ready for that im pretty much on my own right now and pretty much raising my 3 year old sister and i am ready i just need her signiture for everything but thanks for the advice




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