When it comes to relationships I've been through a lot. I used to be so desperate to be in one I'd get myself in the worst situations, but no matter how bad things were I got through them and now I'm in a loving, caring relationship and have been for almost two years.
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I had been with mah ex for about 7 months. Yeah, i know it doesn't seem like alot but it was long distance because he moved like across the freaking U.S.A. Well, he broke up with me because he SAID he met some other girl at tha mall. My friend told me he was going out with my other friend who didn't leave near him either. I was so pissed of that it had to be my good friend. Anyway, the only way i keep in touch with him is over the internet or sometimes phone. Before he broke up with me, we lost weren't in touch with each other because my internet broke && i forgot his number... i don`t know why he didn`t call me.. My point ;; i miss him so much && i can't get over him. I cry over him all the time && he never talks to me anymore.. last thing he said to me was i love u. wtf.. what do you think i should do? Should i tell him how i feel, bitch at him, or never talk to him again?... =[ please help. (link)
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It sounds like this relationship was over long before you knew it. For a long distance relationship to work you have to see eachother from time to time, even then they hardly ever work. He was over it long before you broke up... seeing other people behind your back, not bothering to call, etc. He doesn't love you, people in love don't act like that, he obviously doesn't know what love is.
I think you should just stop talking to him/contacting him. Out of sight is out of mind. Don't bitch at him because it'll only show him that you're still hurting over him. Don't tell him how you feel because there's no point. The best thing for you to do it forget about him and move on.
Find yourself a new boyfriend, or keep yourself busy by going out with friends or getting a new hobbie, so you don't have any time to think about him. And as for the "friend" that was seeing your ex, I hope you're not still friends with her because you don't need people like that as friends.
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