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okay theres this guy back home, i love him so much and we are planning on getting married and starting a family. im dating another guy here at home, but the guy who isnt here is in my old state, and we are wanting to get together in the summer, and right now he wants to build up a long distance relationship. the guy im with now, things arnt working out. the guy, from the other state is an ex, but we broke up on good terms, over drama in like high school. im so confused, because i dont want to hurt the guy im with. he cries whenever something doesnt go his way, and the guy SWEARS he is in love with me and wants me to be his wife. i just dont know, im in love with someone else. i dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP! =(
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It's not a good enough reason to be with someone just because they say they love you and want to be their wife. A good reason to be with someone is because YOU love them (and it's returned) and YOU can picture yourself with them long-term.
You very clearly state that you are in love with one of these guys. If you feel that strongly about him and he returns the feeling, then why are you dating anyone else?
Just be honest and tactful when you break up with the guy you don't love, and then you're free to be with the person who you feel happiest with.
Best of luck.
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thanks. i let the other guy go. now im with my true love =)
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