Hey, I am Cj from Belize. Some may also call me Christopher. Others call me crazy.
You probably never heard of my country before but that is alright. Check for it on a map, it is right under mexico. And please don't direspect my country. Many of my ancestors have fought to make the country independent. ANd so did my grandparents and my father. And when I am old enough, I shall give back to my country its rightful due.
I will answer your questions according to what I think, not what you want to hear or what others are saying. I think for myself. And If you don't or can't think for yourself....
stop wasting your time in life.
And if you hate my advice, please explain why so that I can improve on it. Don't tell me that I am stupid and that you hate me, because I don't care what you think of me.
E-mail: power_cjwaight@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: Belize
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: my aim is to be # 1
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16 and a guy. Ever since I can remember, I've always bottled up my emotions, especially my anger. That lead me into being a shy person most of the times, not all though. Because of that, I find that (and other have told me) that I'm not good at communicating with people. Especially when something bothers me, because I almost never say anything - just to avoid trouble. Here at home especially, and at school its like this. I'd really like some advice on what to do. " Just saying how I feel " is not something I'm used to. (link)
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well, instead of bottling up your feelings, try to be indifferent (that means having no emotions)
Just be a big tough guy. You are 16, the best time to get buff.
And let out your feelings through a more suttle means like destroying stuff. BUt controlled destroying, like breaking boards or trying to rip apart big stacks of paper.
And if you get big and a bit assertive, then express your self. Not your emotions, but yourself, like what you like or do not like. Start by talking about chics,(like what kinds look good, example; blondes/brunettes, smart/dumb) everyone can relate to that.
And if you seem cool, people will naturally do less to upset you. Thats a fact of society!
But just try being indifferent. To build that, you must not succomb to pain. The best pain is that of working out (lift weights, run, join a martial arts club). Don't even think about being a cutter in an attempt to defeat pain. That never works.
By defeating pain, you defeat fear, and fear is the only thing that is holding you back! so unleash your strenght!
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thank you cj. have you ever heard of crew?
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