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Q: I have this friend who is overweight. She asked a question to me on this website about how to loose weight. The main thing was, she said that her freinds (me and my 2 BFs) always talk about her weight and it hurts her and how should she bring it up with them. Well, I found out it was her. The thing is, we have NEVER EVER EVER talked about her weight. We all knew she was bigger but... well we are going to talk to her about it. What should we say? She said she felt like that had to wear bikinis cause my freind and I did. Basically, what should we say to her?
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you don't have to talk to me.. i really can handle this myself. it's good to know that you are there for me, but i am doing what i can and i am doing it the right way. it's something that is just in my genes, if you look at my family .. i mean, i know it's probaly hard for you guys to understand you are lucky and don't have that problem. but you know, i have to work just to become normal & yeah it is hard. ever since i was a little girl it's been an issue, and it is the most sensitive subject i have and my biggest insecurity. even if i eat the exact same as you and whoever else, i guess i just have a slower metabolism and i put on weight when you wouldn't. im active & i dont eat excessive amounts, i am trying to eat really healthy and exersize as much as i can. i know this probably isn't the right way to discuss this with you through advicenators and all, i realize this now and you may not even want to here all of this but i want you to understand even though its hard, and i would try to talk about it in person or other places but .. its really sensitive for me and i can't just bring it up in a conversation, ya know? and i don't really want to its embarassing. but i don't need people telling me im overweight.. the doctor even told me that i was normal weight for my height and such, but that doesn't mean that i'm happy with my body. i know im not skinny, i never will be skinny. i just want to be average and look good. yes its hard for me but i'm exersizing and eating right so that i can wear what i want and feel comfortbale with myself. its hard for me and i am trying to be as honest with you as i can so i really hope you don't take offesnse to any of this im just trying to explain, sorry that this is so long.
-sara.
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um hun, i don't know what the the heck you are talking about. i think u have the wrong person. you didn't even answer my question and i dont no who u are.
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Website: Gender: Female Location: California Age: 16 Member Since: February 28, 2006 Answers: 277 Last Update: August 14, 2007 Visitors: 16643
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