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I want to tell my friend something..It's a problem I've been having and it's kind of serious. I've never told this friend anything this serious before though. How do I know if she'll accept me and keep it a secret? (link)
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One way to predict is to evaluate the way she responds to certain situations. Try to figure out how she would react to your serious news- put yourself in her shoes. To find out roughly how accepting and trustworthy she'll be, you have to ask yourself..
Are you good friends? And if you haven't been friends for very long, she may not be so trustworthy.
Does she gossip a lot? Does she treat other friends/people well? Could you see her doing something really mean?
Would she seem like a supportive friend, thick and thin type of thing? Does she seem mature enough?
Use your judgement. It may change your friendship in some ways, either bad or good ways, so think of the outcome.
So to tell her, say something like "I feel that I need to tell someone about something about me that is serious..I want to tell you and I need your support, could I talk to you in person?"
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