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Call me scooter. No, it isn't my real name, but I like the idea of having a secret name. Most of the people who have professional advice columns don't use their real names, so I don't see why I should either. I want to give the best advice possible, and I figure that the first way of becoming professional is to act professional. That isn't to say that I plan on growing up to be an advice columnist. Actually, I want to be a psychologist. But, this is as close as I'm going to get to that right about now. I'm also a very good writer, so I figure writing an advice column is a good way of getting my ideas out there. Please feel free to ask me any questions you like.
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i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22 and he wants to have sex but i dont and he sead ''if we dont then we have to stop going out'' but truely love him and we have been going out for 2 years but if we did have sex he it would be rape right cuz i'ma minnor and thats why i dont want to and i told him that but he still wants to i would have sex but it's illegal so i dont know what to do should i have sex or not (keeping in mind we love each other)????
-Bryona
No, you should not let him rape you. That's basically what you are asking, isn't it?
Look any guy that tries to manipulate you by saying ''if we dont then we have to stop going out', obviously thinks you are not all that intelligent. Anyone with half a brain can see that what he said makes no sense. Love is unconditional, and saying you will no longer love a person if they don't do what you want is conditional love - in other words, phony love.
Honestly, this is exactly why you shouldn't date men who are that much older than you.
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Thank you for telling the right thing to do! I can't believe I was ever that stupid. I said no and he went away just like everybody said would happen. And he loved me so much that three days later he was having sex with one of my friends. It worked out because I found a very nice guy. Thanks again!
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