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since i was born ive had a huge birth mark on my neck. it hasnt really bothered me until this year. it makes me so self-conscious. its covered up pretty well when my hairs down, but you can still see it a little. but i do sports all year and i have to put my hair up and it just makes me so self-conscious like everyones staring at me. a few people have asked me about it and its so embarassing. i never wear my hair up for school or dances. only sports because i absolutely have to. i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to get rid of it besides surgery because i know my parents wont go for that. thanks.

i know your pain. i have a "beauty mark" next to my lip. i HATE IT!!! i've been asked about it and it really hurts but i just say its a birth mark. (when i think its a mole) i want it removed but my parents won't go for that till later maybe. I would say if you can't get rid of it, enjoy it. its who you are! screw anyone that doesnt like it or thinks its wierd. just think it makes u Unique. and Unique is good. then if that doesnt work...think of all the things that are gorgeous or beautiful about you. pretty soon you'll forget it. good luck and tell me if i helped

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