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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.

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Ok, this is a pretty long story so if you are not after long stories dont bother reading on..

First thing is first.. i am 14/m (gonna b 15 in a month or 2)

Basically my best friend is a girl..and i have known her since we were little..then in primary schoool she left and went to another school, since then we did not talk...but in high school we met up again and ended up in same class..we became extremly close over the years....Just about as close os best friends can become...cut a long story short...i ended up faling for her..i told her..at first she did not feel the same but then she told me she did but things were complicated then a few weeks later she told me she feels more comfortable as friends. So i respected her decision and left it as that...

Meanwhile i have this other friend...basically she a is really horny girl putting it nicely i guess...and i have a sort of weak spot for girls like that and on valentines day just gone me and this girl went out and she ended up giving me head in the cinemas...

I told me best friend and she didnt take it well...she totally lost her respect for me and wont even look at me..i gave it a week or so and then spoke 2 her..she has told me i have changed BIG TIME and most of it coming down to interaction with this other friend and how i have no self control because i let the cinema incident happen.

So i have kind of sort of patched things up with her, i have asked my best friend for a clean slate..i dont want 2 lose her for anything in this world..

She agreed but i know things will never be the same...

Is there anything that i can say or do to help make things work...i care about her more than anything and if i thought what i did on valentines day was going to mess things up like it has i never would have done it...

Would appreciate any help anyone would give..

it looks like you screwed up, big time. when you say you have a 'weak spot' for girls like that, you're really pretty much saying that you like sluts. as bogus as it sounds, that seems to be the case. BUT ,at the same time- if you're best friend specifically told you she felt more comfortable being friends with you, then what gives her the right to get mad at you if you are with another girl, no matter how bad the situation. id say just give it some time, becuase by all means, i really dont think you need to apologize to her for any reason. i think its all on her- she's obviously jealous- maybe not of what you DID with the girl, but that you were WITH her. just let it calm down, and if she really cares about you a much as you care about her, and she values your friendship as much as you do, then she'll find it in her heart to forgive you. until then- keep your pants on, and tell your 'little friend' to keep her mouth closed. spitfire9631@yahoo.com

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