okay, so like, this is really weird. I have fantasies about doing things with my best friend...we'll say her name is Sadie... (i am totally sure I am NOT a lesbian), things like kissing and stuff. I really don't know what I should do about it. She already knows, we talked all night about this problem. She says she totally understands and she's not grossed out or anything. Is this normal? She is very pretty, and practically every boy that lays eyes on her is in love with her. I have another friend who is younger than me and actually does this stuff with her friends, but i don't feel comfortable doing anything with her. Everytime I am alone with sadie, I get that urge to want to do something. I have done that stuff tons of times before, but my parents always found out. One of the things is, I am really trying to be moral and clean. I really wanted to practice kissing, I am saving my first kiss with a guy, and I want it to be good. I want to do something with her more than I care about morals. I think it is kinda weird how I want to practice with her, but I know 100% that I'm not a lesbian, or bi. I don't have a crush on her. Can anyone explain to me how to deal with this, if it's normal, and what I should do about it? (by the way we never did anything together) I rate, PLEASE HELP ME!!
okay well this is a hard problem to face. This has happened to me before. Well what this urge to do something is, is just like a feeling of being deprived of intimacy with a guy or anyone that you really like. And you always love your friends as sisters or like really good friends that you wouldnt go out with. But you would pry go out with these people if they were the opposire sex. To deal with this all you would really have to do is just take some action and get involved with a guy before you do feel a really strong urge to do something with your best friends. but dont worry this is perfectly normal!
Good Luck
Kate&hearts
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thanx so much! there is this guy i know and we both like eachother (he doesn't know i like him yet), so i will focus my attention on him
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