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My name is Monique. Feel Free to call me Momo. I am 14, female, I go to OCMS. I like hanging out w/ friends, shopping, giving makeovers, partying, and listening to music. I am a Vegetarian, and I strongly support Gays, Bi's, Lesibians, and Humane Rights. My favorite TV show of all time is The L Word. Sorry, I'm really trying to get a picture of me up here, but I cant get one less than 15 K's. But I'm trying.

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ok...so me and this guy lets call him "bob" were going out, and i broke it off..but i stil liked him.. so anyway we started talking and we immediatley started flirting, and welll i just didnt want a boyfriend. so we would just sit there and talk about stuff, and then one day, me and my friend lets call her "sally".me and my friend sally want to play a prank on him. so we do, and he gets mad at sally..but doesnt get mad at me.. (hes dated sally before) and then the next day, me and bob talk it out and he asks why i dont want a boyfriend and i tel him cause im scared someone will hurt me...but i mean i really love bob.so i decided ok i'll go out with him.. he said he loved me and i believed him and i loved him...so he asked me out and i said yes,,and then everythign was going really great, but we didnt see each other that often cuz we went to different schools..and then he sent me an email saying that he just wanted to be friends,..and i was bummed out..like literally cause he promised he wouldnt hurt me..and then not even a week later hes going out with sally...and i love bob, i really do, but he doesnt know it...so how can i make him see that sally will never love him as much as i will, and that i will do anything for him..and that i want him back


by the way im 13/f... and ill rate huge. plz help.

Hey,
You know what, your 13, you really shouldn't be looking or falling in love. Your supposed to have fun! Being free, not being tied down. If "Bob" really loved you, like you love him, Then he would come to you. Chasing a guy should just be beneath you. Besides you did say you didn't want anyone to hurt you, but your letting yourself be hurt by being so upset about "Bob". And as for Miss "Sally" she's obviously no friend, or a good one anyway. If she knew you had these feelings for "Bob" then she shouldn't have dated him. Friends don't do that to each other. I say, get a new love interest. Forget "Bob", you really don't need him. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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(Rating: 5) thanks a bunch!!
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