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Q: i have a question bout my parens ...... well dealing with them. I am 15 years old. My parents argue a lot and i cant take it. i hate it so much and they dont understand how much sress it causes me. i dont know how to deal. how can i deal with the stress and anger they cause me? please answer as soon as possible. thank you.

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Stressed and emotional
That happens to me too! It's not my mom and dad though...it's my mom and my uncle! Well I understand how you feel, especially when you're in the middle and you're in you teenage years. And when you try to stop them or part the arguement they say you're 2 young and you don't understand! Well I've tried a new approach which i think might help you. Try telling them about it and if it doesn't work just try to be angry with them and go in your room and not talk to them...jus forget they exsist!
Then I'm sure your parents will agree for the sake of you. Also try to tell them how much it hurts you to hear them quarreling and if your grades are bad tell them the stress it getting to you. I'm sure in this case your parents best interest is you and remind them of that! Tell them it's not a matter of divorce because it will hurt you more...n i'm so sure they'll see your side of things!

I like that answer. plus what you said about my grades is so true. my grades have been prety bad lately. i think it is my way of saying, "hey, i need some attention down here" thanks again for your advice.

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