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Member Since: February 2, 2006
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Last Update: March 23, 2006
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First off, I've been single for a really long time. Last week I met a really great guy. I have really high expectations and he met almost every one of them. Anyway, I know I kinda brought it upon myself but I sent him one of those typical surveys about "what you would do" and "do you like me" types of things. He marked that he wanted a fling with me but not an actual relationship. Should I go for the fling, do what a I want and have a valentine this year or just stay friends and be alone for a really long time? If it helps, I go to an all girls high school & see guys.. never. I'm 15 & female. thanks! (link)
I wouldn't check off the box saying "long term" if I didn't know the person, but if I thought there was potential, fling would fit. I think he just wants to get to know you first. Don't push so hard! He's as interested in you as most guys are interested in the girls that eventually become their girlfriends ;-) Relax, and keep an eye on it, but don't take the "pulse" of the relationship through surveys, especially often.


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thanks! i feel a lot better!




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