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please answer this question if you're good at that kind of stuff. . i really need this advice. . .
there's this girl in my class, and i think i'm in love with her. the thing is, i'm afraid if i tell her it will ruin our relationship that we already have. we've been great friends since the second grade, and i just realized i love her. i'm just afraid that if it doesn't work out, our relationship will be ruined for, like, ever. but seriously, i LOVE her. . .
i also need some advice on how to tell her i love her. . .that would be of great help. . .i will rate fives for serious answers. . .
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Oh this is a serious one. Well do you think she likes you back? If you get a certain vibe, then try hanging out with her after classes. Ask her to come over (casually of course). When she reponds, if she's excited, then yay for you! You're definitely on your way. But when she says automatically, "I have plans," hun, you might as well stop there. Don't keep asking, it'll make her realize you like her a little much, and it'll freak her out. So if she does come over, just like very discreetly bring up what she thinks about friends dating. If she's smart, she'll take the hint, and go by what she says. If she says it's great, do it man, go for it. She knows now.. Take her on a date to the movies, or a coffee. Don't go overboard! Work your way up from there, see where it leads you. If you feel it'll work out well, tell her how much she means to you. Just don't do it too soon!
Good Luck!!
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Rating: 5
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thnx so much. . .that really helps. . .now i know something i didn't before, and that is that i should stop trying. . .
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