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sr to bother you again. but the thing is, in school we are pretty much best friends which is awkward for me because usually my best friends arent girls. But she tells me everything. well mostly everything. Almost all her secrets. I f i ask her out and she says no, will that ruin the relationship we have now?
P.S. She is in 5/6 of my classes which if she says no might make it awkward. any more ideas? I really appreciate them (link)
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Well, it's different for everyone, but I'll use my own examples to give you ideas of what it could be like.
I actually dated my best friend for about a month. We weren't even that close before. Barely even friends, but after dating, we've become best friends and we tell each other everything.
I liked my friend Jimmy and told him, but he didn't like me back. It was awkward for a while, but eventually it was normal again..and then he asked me out months later. We broke up. Things were awkward for a little while. Things got better. He liked me, but I didn't like him. (here is where you could maybe end up relating to.) He got very very mad at me and called me names (don't do that!) and we got into a huge fight. We talked it out though and things went right back to normal.
Jimmy and my friend Lauren are best friends. They decided to go out, broke up, and are still best friends.
My friend Nick asked me out twice. Each time i said no, but it didn't change our friendship at all.
I can't think of one time when people who were friends before ruined it forever by trying a relationship. It may be awkward for a few weeks, but only if you make it awkward.
I hope this helped.
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