Hey, I am Cj from Belize. Some may also call me Christopher. Others call me crazy.
You probably never heard of my country before but that is alright. Check for it on a map, it is right under mexico. And please don't direspect my country. Many of my ancestors have fought to make the country independent. ANd so did my grandparents and my father. And when I am old enough, I shall give back to my country its rightful due.
I will answer your questions according to what I think, not what you want to hear or what others are saying. I think for myself. And If you don't or can't think for yourself....
stop wasting your time in life.
And if you hate my advice, please explain why so that I can improve on it. Don't tell me that I am stupid and that you hate me, because I don't care what you think of me.
E-mail: power_cjwaight@yahoo.com
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Age: 16
AIM: my aim is to be # 1
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alright, first off i should tell you about my self. i am a 14 year old female, and i have never believed in god, or any of that stuff. ever. my whole family is majorly relgious, and im not. in most cases i am completely different from my family, so it didnt supprise me when i really didnt believe in god.
i dont believe in him, at all, what so ever. and my parents FORCE me too. like i HAVE to go to classes and church every week. i have tried to calmyly tell them, i dont believe in it.. i have tried uncalmly. nothing works.
i believe that religion is a thing that you should choose, it shouldnt be force.
so i need ya'lls help.
how can i really get them to see that i do not believe in this stuff?
i want to come across mature.
thanks for all that is going to help. (link)
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Ok , so you really don't believe in the guy, or do you?
fine you don't , but do you have reason for not believing or are you being prejudice, (judging without reason.)
The best thing to do is not mention it. They believe in christ and force you to church, might as well go, doesn't sound like you have much choice.
As to tell your parents, try this,
"I am not of your religion but seeing as it is your belief systems, I respect it. I also wish that you respect my belief systems allthough they differ from yours"
they key thing is to handle it in a calm matter, and don't the same as them. They are imposing thier religion on you , don't force your beliefs on them. Make as little reference to the matter as possible. If you are fighting against it but still being like them, you are no better than them.
oh yeah, try to live up to the quote that i mentioned above, don't say it but live it. this might solve your problems.
If you think i got the gist of it but not exactly what you wanted ask me again.thanks,
OH, i get you, maybe you don't believe in thier religion, not necceseraly the god of which they speak. some religions simpl belief god created the world and has been inactive ever since. So try a different religion befroe casting God out completely.
Cj
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one of the reason i do not believe is that, if this man is so powerful. and if this man is so wonderful. and loves us to dearly.. why doesnt he come back, and live here again?
why wont he show his face?
he loves us, right?
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