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My grandpa died about one year ago, and the only time I cried about it is when i recieved the news on the phone. Not even at the funeral/wake..=\. But it's sort of hard to believe that I didn't because I used to have a diary and i wrote about how close i was to him and how much i loved him and such. Now for the past few days, all I have been doing is crying about him because I miss him so much. I mean i can't even watch certain shows on tv anymore because we used to watch them together, and songs that sing about relationships make me cry. My question is, why am i just starting to miss him and crying now? What should I do? This is the first time i've cried about him being gone.
Thanks for any advice. And btw, I dont have any other grandparents, and my parents and i arent that close so i cant get help from them. Thanks.
TO: my grandpa died.
i understand what your going through. my uncle died almost a year ago. i never cried about it until a few months afterwards. i think it was because everything was just too sudden. some could argue i was either running away from or hiding the pain in the death. [i'm not saying YOU are though].
it's okay to cry. i'm sure things have been somewhat lonesome, especially now that you're remembering all these little things about your grandpa. healing takes time. we might not feel the wound immediately but the pain is still there somewhere. now that its gotten back to you, let it all out.
i just want to let you know that you should never be sad because you're granpa died. it is said that those who mourn TOO LONG for a death is selfish because all they can think about is themselves and that person being together again. you should cherish the moments you two had and always look back on them to make you feel better, not worse. ya noe?
i hope that helps.
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