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Hey, I am Cj from Belize. Some may also call me Christopher. Others call me crazy.

You probably never heard of my country before but that is alright. Check for it on a map, it is right under mexico. And please don't direspect my country. Many of my ancestors have fought to make the country independent. ANd so did my grandparents and my father. And when I am old enough, I shall give back to my country its rightful due.

I will answer your questions according to what I think, not what you want to hear or what others are saying. I think for myself. And If you don't or can't think for yourself....
stop wasting your time in life.

And if you hate my advice, please explain why so that I can improve on it. Don't tell me that I am stupid and that you hate me, because I don't care what you think of me.
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I used to always masturbate. quite alot. but then about 2 weeks ago i read something that said that masturbating is a sin. well ever since i read that i havent masturbated, i actually gave in yesterday but then i felt reallllly guilty afterwards. is this bad because i mean will it mean i'll never be able to enjoy masturbating? is this normal and will i ever get over it? please help. i rate 5's! (link)
15m christain.

It may be a sin, it may be not. when it comes to the realm of sin, well.... I do not consider it a sin. It is the habit of masturbation that is a sin. I have not read anywhere in the bible about masturbation being a sin. I have heard that it is wrong in a quote from the CCC. (cathecism of the catholic church).

THe guilt feeling only came that last time, right?
Before you actually felt satisfied right?

well, you could masturbate again if you want to, but you probably will have a sense of guilt about it from now on. SO it won't be fun as it used to.

You may cave in now and again, and you might get over it. Similiar story caught me about six months ago.

I always had a guilty feeling afterwards even though i was going long stretches without doing it. but i really stopped aboout six weeks ago, I almost feel no need to go back. I may feel an urge but i fight it.

After a while it gets easy to fight.

Another advice person mentioned praying after you do it, that just makes you feel more guilty. Instead pray when you get an urge that you may be able to fight it.

Good Luck,

God will hear.


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