Hi I'm a 27 year old female from British Columbia, Canada. I work in retail as a sales assoicate. I have an above average intelligence about relationships and mental health issues and love giving advice to those in need. My parents bitterly divorced when I was 13 and through this I learned a lot about relationships. I've also lived through a severe depression and mental breakdown in my early twenties, so I know a lot about mental health. If anyone has a question for me about either of these topics I would be glad to answer as best to my abililty. I would just like to add how much joy this site had brought to my life. I truly believe that by helping others you help yourself.
Website: Life Is What You Make It
Gender: Female
Location: British Columbia, Canada
Occupation: Sales Associate
Age: 27
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Hi 15F. Just because im a girl means that im supposed to have a BF. and i dont by choice and becuase im ugly. but that still doesnt stop
family or friends from asking if i have a
BF.
usually when they ask i say no and leave it at that but they still ask other questions like why not? or do you think your gay?
its sooo annoying!
is there a way to say something that will make them stop asking these things i want to be polite yet firm.. i rate 5s. thanks.
~~No Boyfriend. No Problems.~~ (link)
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You are only 15, so I don't think it's the end of the world if you don't have a boyfriend. I never dated all through highschool. It wasnt that I didnt like guys, or that I was a lesbian, it was that I wasnt interested in any of the boys in my class because I found them to be too immature. Most of the guys just wanted sex and not a meaningful relationship. People are always going to gossip no matter what. I heard a few rumours that I was a lesbian. You just have to try and not let it bother you, or these people can destroy you.
If it comes up again that you don't have a boyfriend, just tell your friends that you havent met the right guy yet, and that you're just not interested in anyone from school. It's really no ones business but your own.
So try not to let them get you down. I know it's hard, but I'm living proof that you CAN survive highschool.
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