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Q: Hi 15F. Just because im a girl means that im supposed to have a BF. and i dont by choice and becuase im ugly. but that still doesnt stop
family or friends from asking if i have a
BF.
usually when they ask i say no and leave it at that but they still ask other questions like why not? or do you think your gay?
its sooo annoying!
is there a way to say something that will make them stop asking these things i want to be polite yet firm.. i rate 5s. thanks.

~~No Boyfriend. No Problems.~~

If you have no problem with not having a boyfriend just tell them that.Just when they ask you say it like you mean it for example..lets say they ask you ," Hey do you have a bofriend yet?" all you have to say is ,"no and i dont want one right now." And if your family or friends ever ask you if your gay that is just wrong.Tell them no and tell them that just because that you dont have a boyfriend doesnt mean that you are gay.I dont have a boyfriend but i cannot stand lesbians they are just plain creepy.Also, if the same person keeps asking just say, "I told you like 5 times already i dont have a boyfriend!"That actually makes people stop asking that because it embarasses sometimes so they will stop.If they still continur to ask, just tell them etheir that you just broke up with someone or you like someone.(i know that its lying but it will make them stop.)

I hope that helped :)
♥ Bailea

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