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Age: 27
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okay so theres this kid who really likes me and has asked me out so many times and each time i have politely said no, but lately he wont quit and keeps on asking me and asking me sometimes more than once a day! how do i tell him to stop asking me without being completely rude? (link)
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Normally I would say to let him down gently, but when you have someone who just doesn't or won't understand that you're not interested, it's best to be FIRM.
I had a guy who was obsessed with me and followed me around like a puppy dog. He constantly asked me out and I was always really nice about it. Well one day he left a message on my voice mail and said "hey babe, call me at (his number). I was furious!! So I did something sort of mean, I got one of my friends to confront him and tell him to never phone me again and that I was NOT interested. He was really mad at me and hurt but guess what? He stopped asking me out and never bothered me again. His dirty looks were upsetting at first but at least he wasnt driving me insane any more.
So my advice is, if you're too nice to be mean to him, get a friend to confront him. It worked for me!
Good luck, let me know what happens.
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