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well. im 15/f and i like this guy that i KNOW likes me back.. i see him about every week or so.. we flirt and all.. but hes not doing anything about it.. all of my friends say that he told them that he 'adores me' and all.. but hes really not taking anything to the next step.. is there something i can do to show/tell him that i want him to go further? tell me if im doing anything wrong.. or if i should be doing something..
thanks..
Well I think in your position YOU have to take the step further. If you know that he really cares about you, and you really care about him, YOU should talk to him. Ask him where you guys stand, tell him you want to be with him and ask him what is holding you back. Yeah it'll probably be hard to just come out and talk to him about it but it will be worth it. You will find out more about whats happening with both of you, and you wont be wondering anymore. Its obvious that you already waited a while for things to happen, and since he isnt doing anything about it you should. Trust me this WILL work, your not doing anything wrong i think you are just both too shy to talk about you guys as a couple. I asked my bf out and I took the next step all the time, now me and him have been dating for 4 months. You cant go wrong with my advice, even if something is stoping him from goin out with you, YOU will find out and you wont be wondering anymore. All i have to say is do not be afraid of rejection, if you are determined to ask him about stuff you will, just remember that in the long run, only GOOD will come out of you asking him.
Good Luck...
(Rating: 5) thank you sooo much!!!