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Q: Sheesh...It's just been a romantic emotional roller coster for me! A guy I am completely smitten with unintentionally broke my heart by going after another girl...it didn't work out so well. It's been about 3 or 4 weeks since then. I think *Maybe* he likes me now? I dunno...Maybe he just see's me as a good friend...he is allways near me the most at get togethers, or in class, he allways sits next to me. I am perfectly aware that he may just be comfortable around me in a way that doesn't go any further than friendship...but I dunno...I went and saw a movie with him not too long ago...when we went to say goodbye, I hugged him, and he held onto me for longer than I expected...then he pulled back a little, but kept one of his arms wrapped all the way around my waist...he held me pretty close to his face and kinda looked into my eyes...heh...maybe I shoulda kissed him? I dunno. If he IS interested in me now for some reason, I'm afraid he may be confused or just not thinking straight because of his recent failed attempt at a relationship...Well, I should tell any readers now that I am going to make damn sure that if he asks me out, that he's really ready for it, and I'm going to make sure he isn't just trying to make this other girl jealous...(BTW, this girl he liked wasn't there with us when we went to the movies...)

So, tell me what you think...in the meantime, I'm just crossing my fingers...

S
My suggestion would be to be proactive and ask him yourself. Dont read too far into his actions, but dont blow them off as insignificant either. If you just sit around waiting for him to ask you out, it may not happen. Be confident, get out there, and do your thing!

Thank you. I will consider your advice carefully! Thank you for taking the time to answer my question!

S


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