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i am 15/f highschool, and i want to have sex, badly. i know that i'm ready for it. but my boyfriend and i both agree on waiting til theres a time where we dont have to worry about getting caught, and when he can actually love me after and not me have to leave, you know, well, i live in wilson. and i'm also afraid itd going to get around, but its weird cuz. i trust him. and dont think that he will tell anyone, but i dont trust myself.. kinda. i meaan, i told people when i gave my ex a handjob, and shit, but i kinda think sx, is a diff, story, you know, my mom would kill me if she found out.

confused& hatin hormones

Look, sex is really serious. Its not something you do because your horny and you want to. It means something very serious and u seem desperate for it. I think when you loose your virginity its to someone special that will stand by you A LOT of things can happen when having sex. Deseases and pregnancy. BE CAREFUL i dun mean to sound like a parent just dont do anything stupid your most likely going to regret. If this guy is really that important to you you guys can wait. I think your just really horny and the rush you get by sneaking around is getting to you. Relax, sex isnt necesary and alwasy remember the risks. I hope I helped and i hope my advice got to you.

P.S. Think A LOT about your decision if you decide to have sex, and i mean like weeks at every second of the day, even when your not horny. You'll be surprised at how differently you think.

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