Gender: Female Member Since: December 22, 2005 Answers: 14 Last Update: December 29, 2005 Visitors: 1819
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okay well me and this guy Jordan dated for 6 months and he dumped me in August. I know I had my chance before and everything but now i realize i still really like him! I really never stopped liking him acctualy. But now my best friend Chelsey is dating him!! What should I do? I can't tell Chelsey that I still like him becauase then She'll hate me forever. Should I try to break them up? Should I talk to Jordan about it or maybe straighten things out with Chelsey (( prefferably not )) ? Please help me. I'll rate 5's unless you're mean.
Sincerley,
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haha im glad you asked this!! these situations are tough.. this happens with my friends all the time..lets call them alyssa and gab--well alyssa will date some1 and then she'll break up with him and then gab will date that person then will gab is dating alyssa's ex alyssa will have a new b/f then alyssa will dump him and when gabs done with alyssa's old ex she'll go for the new one..and even though it isnt me.. it pisses me off! because rule #1 between friends is never EVER go out with an ex!! its just an unwritten rule every1 knows and should follow!! the right thing to do would to sit your friend down and tell her about these unwritten rules and let her know your offended..but honestly.. i would try and break them up.. im not gonna lie.. and if you decide to break them up then id convince chelsey to break up with him cause there are chances that (males being as retarded as they are) ur ex might say something or say that you told him something and your friend might be mad..i guess sjust point out all the negatives and maybe throw in a lie or 2..i know this isnt the right thing to do but well.. thats how i handle things!! its easy and saves everyone alot of drama and fighting which belive me you dont want!!
p.s.--hope this helped!! good luck!
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Rating: 5
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THANK YOU SO FRICKIN MUCH! this RLY helps-
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