I live in Central Wisconsin. I am married and we have two daughters. In 1997 I earned my degree in psychology from the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point. In my spare time I study psychology and philosophy.
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Location: Stevens Point, WI
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Age: 35
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I'm 27 years old and my ten year highschool reunion is coming up in the new year. Well I feel that by my age I should have acomplished more than I have.
For one thing, I'm still single and don't own my own home or have children. I thought by now that I'd be married, have either a successful career or be a housewife.
All I have is a ten year old car, a small appartment that I rent, a part time job that doesnt pay that good, and some nice furniture and lots of movies, cds, and large television and computer. Maybe I shouldnt complain, I guess things could be worse. Some people from my class are in jail, or had to move back in with there parents for financial reasons, or became single parents.
How can I feel better about myself so when I do go to the reunion I won't sound like such a loser? (link)
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Relax. You're in your tweens. Lots of your classmates are enjoying the same freedom that you are. The culture has changed in the past twenty years, and more young adults are combining the fun-loving freedom of their teenage years with the advantages of adulthood and an income....and they are putting off the burden of marriage, family, and a serious career to enjoy themselves. They call it the tweens, and it can last until their early thirties. Don't worry, you won't be the only one there enjoying yourself!
Dr. Chad
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thanks, i feel a lot better now! Great advcie Dr. Chad!
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