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Do you think Iam ready to have sex? Tell after reading this.
Well Im 13 female, I live in Pensacola, Florida. My b/f's name is Stephen. I really like him. I get really "exited" around him. He's so hott. He really likes me. He wants to screw me. I dont know if Im ready. Im a virgin. I want to but Im so nervous, Im afraid I'll screw up! Do you think Im ready? If so,,, any hints on how to do it and preferences from you guys, would be fine. please do a good answer. ill rate 5's to all answers that help. (link)
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I'm not gonna sit here and tell you not to do it. But here's some things you should think about before you do.
* If you have to ask if you are ready, you're really not ready are you? When you go to have sex, you shouldn't have to ask for reassurance from others about if you are making the right desicion. It's YOUR virginity, not theirs.
* You like him, but do you love him? Could you live with yourself knowing that he has taken something from you that no one else is ever gonna be able to take again? Can you see yourself in a serious relationship with Stephen? And no, sex does not make a relationship serious. Emotional and mental connections do, neither of which you can aquire just from sex alone.
* Do you feel comfortable talking to him about birth control and what happens if you do get pregnant? If not, you are definitley not ready to have sex. You have to be comfortable with him to the point where you can talk about anything with him, or sex will just put a strain on the relationship even more.
* Yeah, so what? You get "excited" around him. He turns you on. That doesn't mean you have to lose the big V to him. You'll meet lots of guys who "excite" you, but is this the right one to lose it to?
* Would you be his first? What's his sexual history? Does he have STD's, HIV/AIDS? Haven't asked? Hmm...
Listen, I really wanna help you out. You might think I don't know jack shit about what you're talking about or that I'm just trying to stop you from doing it. I'm not. I'm trying to educate you. My screenname is blondstbrunete34. I really want you to IM me and ask me anything you want about this, because I can offer my opinions and maybe help you out a bit. This is coming from a girl who lost her virginity a little bit before she turned 15. So please, IM me and we can chat about this. I won't be a bitch, promise!
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Rating: 5
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Its alright. I changed my mind. Youre right. I agree, its just that hes so hott. LOL
thanks
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