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Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
Member Since: December 22, 2005
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Last Update: December 23, 2005
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Hello there. Too get straight to the point im very confused about who i am, and who i want too be, all my life ive been into rock and that sorta..thing, well sometimes ill feel like i want to be very girly and i bought a bunch of pink stuff but then i listen to my music and i think what im doing? and i go back..i dont know what to do, is there something wrong with me? (link)
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you!
I think it's really cool that you can flip between styles and be into everything! This means you're a very flexible person and can probably fit in with alot of different groups of people!
And just because you're into rock doesn't mean you have to be a rocker chick! I personally love all music (seriously - classical, rock, pop, r&b, rap, dance, musical - everything!!) but the music I listen to doesn't define me as a person! Every girl wants to feel girly and stuff - and thats totally awesome! It doesn't mean you have to listen to 'girly music'. Just whatever you do, be true to yourself and when you become comfortable with yourself and who you are (be honest with yourself/love yourself!!) everyone will see that confidence and love you too!
So whatever you decide remember that you don't have to be defined into a certain group by the way you dress - have a bunch of random stuff - and whatever you feel like wearing when you wake up, put it on! There's nothing uncool or wrong about that! Good luck, and again, be true with who you are!


Rating: 5
Thanks so much! :))




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