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Q: I'm dating this girl. I'm really happy, and I love her very much. but theres this other girl that likes me, and she happens to be a close friend. She has a b/f and she's wants to dump this b/f for me. But how do I tell her I don't wanna be with her? I don't want her to get mad and stop being my friend.....idk....

Just sit her down and tell her that you do love her just not in the same way that she loves you. Tell her that she should stay with her boyfriend and you think that they can go far. She will be hurt and things may be akward at first but just keep reminding her you do love her, just more as a friend than anything else. You can also tell her that if you guys did go out, things could get really messy after the relationship. It will all work out fine. Good luck!

Thanks for writing more than "tell her the truth" lol like most everyone else did. you give good advice, keep it up.

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Hey guys! My name is Leah and I am 15 years old. I'm from Maine where it's always beautiful but for some reason, everyone here wants to leave it. I love playing basketball and just hangin out with my friends whenever I can. I am the advice giver in my group of friends and I always help them out with whatever it is they may need. When I get older I want to be a phyciatrist and have a huskey named Isabella. I don't know why but I do. If you have a problem, I am here for you and wont judge you at all. I never pass up on a question passed to me so don't be shy. I've been through a lot in the past 15 years and I'm sure I will be able to answer a majority of you guys' questions. Hit me up and don't forget to live for the moment. It's the most important thing you can do.

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