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Hello, I need some help or advice. Well I'm 20 years old and I live with my parents. My entire life they have been controlling. However, recently I was engagged and moved out simply because they wanted me to and broke off the engagment and moved back home because I relized I loved someone else. Whom they hate and wont meet because he broke off the engagment. Anyways, I love him. However my parents think I'm 12 and tell me what to do, they tell me what time to be home, and yell at me when I get home after 3 in the morning. I know I live here with them however, I can't take them telling me what to do. I've told them before but they do not change. However, last night I got home around 4, and my parents were awake and said they tried callign me, but i was sleeping. I was like okay, they were like your a lier, dans a bad guy, and yoru a bad person, and saying all this negative bad thigns about me, when all I want to do is not have them controll me anymore. Anyways, my mom and dad were yelling and them my dad started hitting me I wasnt' talking back or anything, just simply because he was mad them my mom tried to stop him, then he started trying to hurt my puppy. Then they finally went to bed. I dont' know what to do. I want to move out with my boyfriend but I'm afraid they will not let me and controll me, I need to get out of here. I need to move out but then i'm afraid they will try to take my car away, or try to hurt my boyfriend or me? Help I don't know what to do or where to go for help I feel lost, and confuesed and controlled I need to be free. Help Please! (link)
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since you are 20, your parents dont really have the right to tell you when to be home and stuff like that. tell them how this is making you feel, say something like this: " you guys are too conrtolling, you dont really have the right to control me bc i am 20 years old, you cant hit me or my property." say something like that. i think you should move in with your boyfriend, that way, you can be with the one you like, come home whever you want, and not hafta worry about your parents yealling and contolling you. they cant make you stay there. you have the right to move out.
hope i helped!
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