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Hey,
I am 16 years old, living in Kansas City, MO. I have a girlfriend who I am crazy about. Im about 5'10" and ~140lbs. I basically like what most teenage guys do.
Please, don't hesitate to ask. I don't judge. If it's a little to personal to be displayed in front of everyone, just IM me on AOL Instant Messenger.
Have A Good One,
JMaz
Gender: Male
Location: Kansas City, MO
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: AlmightyShort
Member Since: April 6, 2005
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i am madly in love with this boy who is in 7th grade. i am in 8th grade so it would be werid dating down. i have only had 1 serious boyfriend so far. i am pretty sure that they boy i like likes me too. my parents don't like this guy because they say he's too immature. he is totally hott, really sweet, and just amazing. my parents have judged him wrong. i have one class with him and i catch him watching me across the room and i see him watching me during lunch too. we both go to a very small (less than 900 students) school so we see eachother a lot. i do not want to ask him out, but i may end up having to! he is really good friends with several girls but they are just friends. they are cheerleaders and he plays football. i play sports too but cheerleaders are automatically "in" so i have competition. what should i do? i need help asap! should i ask him out? wait on him to ask me? just let it rest a while? HELP! (link)
Having feelings for a guy younger than you is okay, normal too. If you like this guy that much, go for it. However, don't let your emotions get in the way of your self-respect. You said you dont want to go all the way, make sure he knows that. Doesnt matter if he's younger than you- "no" means "no" and dont forget that. Me and my girlfriend understand each others comfort zone, thats what you need to establish. As far as parents go, talk to them. Sounds stupid but let them know that your not plannin on running to Vegas or anything, just that you like this guy. Chances are you Dad doesnt wanna see his "little girl" get hurt, which is understandable. as far as moms go-only heaven knows...=)

Hope I helped-

Jeff


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thank u so much!




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