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Hey Im 18 years old and a sophmore in college. I love helping people out with there problems. Believe it or not my childhood and now my small but so far hecktic adulthood has been horrible. But I grin and bear it and just smile because i know somewhere out there someone is in a worse situtation then me...I am told that Im really good at giving advice expecially about relationships and family problems. But it is also well know that I cant take my own advice to save my life. I've saved my bestfriends marrige and her life...and Im here for anyone and everyone who needs a helping hand...you can always email me Im always checking that, have a great day!
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Location: California
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Age: 18
MSN: blueyeblondeqt@hotmail.com
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i recently feel like i have no control over my relationships with my family, friends and classmates anymore. like, all of my relationships are venturing downhill, and it really hurts because there is noone that seems to understand me, and i seem invisible at times. sometimes i can't even understand myself. no matter how hard i try, i can't get back the good friendships i had with others anymore, and it feels like i'm gradually growing senseless to my actions. is there anything that i can do to help repair my relationships?
The first thing you can do is R.E.L.A.X. you might say you've tried or you have but you havent no matter how hard you've tried or who much you've tried.
I went through the same thing for months. I felt like everything I said was lost in the air and no one heard me. I felt like none of my friends wanted anything to do with me, and that i was invisible to my boyfriend and family.
The problem is somewhere inside your not happy with yourself. You need to look around and see whats going on in your life that you can change for the best.
Try going out and going shopping or waking up a couple hours earlier and getting ready to the best of your ability, or working out doing situps and eating healthy....
Everyone around you is hearing you, but doesnt notice that something is wrong because its only you who's seeing it...so relax...
hope i was of some help!
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thank you very much!
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