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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.
My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.
Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.
It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.
When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.
Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f (link)
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This isn't love who are we fooling? He has shown you through this that he has a dark side and has no respect for your wishes. By text book definition if you said "Ouch, no, quit, stop" or any combination of those words and he did not it's rape. He can be charged with sexual assualt for this.
At any rate I would make sure he paid for this dearly. It is only going to get worse and who has any clue if there is a dark side to him where he could become angry and hurt you.
This guy as much as you love him should be kicked to the curb and shown the door. Furthermore, you NEED to tell your parents and let your father go after him.
As for the sheets yo should have told him to go home and not come back. He really is not worthy of you and this is plain disgusting and not to be tolerated.
If you let him back in your bed, have sex, or act like nothing happened you are only fuelling a serious problem here. It will escalate that way and repeat on rapid cycle. My advice THINK! IS HE WORTH THIS KIND OF SHIT HAPPENING?
Do make sure adults know what happened especially parents they will advise you further on what should/needs done.
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Thanks alot. And I told my mom about it but I made her promise not to tell my dad because I know he'd explod. I want to know what my bf has to say about it first.
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