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My aunt passed 8 months ago. Her and I just so happen to wear the same size clothing. About 4 weeks ago, my uncle brought over some of my aunt's clothes for me to go through and pick out what I would like to keep. He gave the clothes to us, so I'm not pressed for time to decide because we don't have to return them or anything like that, but my Mom has been rushing me to look through them so she can clear them out of the basement. Thing is, I don't want the clothes. It's not that they're unappealing to me. It's that it would just be too emotionally upsetting to have them. I really don't want them, and I'm firm in my decision. My mom views it as, "perfectly good clothes", and since they're free, she might be a tad bit mad if I didn't accept them. Don't get me wrong, I've very thankful for the offer. But I just don't want to look like a total jerkface to my unlce's family. *Do you think it would be rude of me to refuse the clothing? (link)
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Well I really dont think it should matter. I mean we all have styles and emotions. If that clothes would bring out your emotions then I dont see why you should have to take them. Sometimes my mom would buy me clothes and some I didnt like but I still said thank you and all and then just never wore them unless I was home all day. Do what you have to but respect your parents at the same time. Maybe talk to her and tell her why you don't want them. Im sure a mother would understand if you tell her your emotions will come out if you wore the clothes. Hope I helped you a little there. Good luck.
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Wow! This was beyond helpful!! Thank you very much for supplying your time and effort. I apologized for the late rating, but perhaps you'd like to know that (since it's six months later) the clothing ended up going to victims of the hurricanes in the south. Again, thank you sooo sooo soo much!!!! (:
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