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Q: My best friend (A) might or at least I think is flirting with my Ex who I am still in love with. She knows I like him and she has a boyfriend that she likes to. But what got me mad was when I saw them play fighting. So I got mad and left and I 'sorta' got over it today until I saw her around him again play fighting and acting stupid. It broke my heart and I almost cried cause I he might like her!! What can I say to her. Thanks All 5's SWEAR!
I had a similar problem with my ex. Even now that we're going out he still flirts with my friend. I know what you mean about the play fighting. I get so annoyed because any time she comes around, one of them starts something with the other and I'm left out. I think you have the right to be mad at her. I also think it would be good for the two of you to talk, though. (Before you backhand her and get in a fight then wind up with "Loser" written on your head with highlighter. lol!) Just tell her that whether she's flirting or not, it bothers you. One thing that would be nice to know is whether your ex thinks she's flirting. Maybe you can get her to talk to him and find out if he considers it flirting and if he likes her. He might even use this flirting to try and make you jealous. It's hard to know. Just hang in there. Things will hopefully get better because if your friend is a REAL friend, she'll understand how you feel. If you want to be really brave just go up to you ex and tell him you love him and see what happens. But I'm not even brave enough to do that. lol! Anyway... Good luck! I hope I was helpful!

Dam thats a long responce! But I read it! THANKS!!!!

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