i'm young and sweet and i love to give advise. when people need advise they come to me. i'm great and fabulous, but i hate when people brag, so i'll stop now. i sumtimes get jealous but i'm sure everyone does. i love to hang out with buds, and i love guyz. i hope i can help you. (i won't answer any questions for gayz. srry)
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I broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years a few weeks ago for my own reasons that I'm not getting into - just know it was for both of us, not just me, that I did it.
It was a bit of a conversation, but one thing I did ask was that he not forget about me and consider me a friend. Since then, he's attempted contact (via AIM) a couple times, and each time it's ended with me in tears and him saying he doesn't think he can handle talking to me just yet.
The thing is, I don't miss him. I'm happy single right now. This is what I need and I'm glad I did it. I feel bad because I know I hurt him, yet he agreed with my reasoning and seemed to think I was right.
Was it wrong of me asking him to keep our friendship? If I don't miss him, why do I always end up crying?
Please, hold off on the chatspeak. You'll get rated down and nobody wants that. (link)
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just give him time, and give yourself time. you'll be able to talk soon, and it's okay that you want to be friends. you may not miss him, but you cry because it makes you feel bad that he misses you. don't feel bad because you did what was right. hope it helps. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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