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Every time Im on the phone with my boyfriend we always start argueing because he always brings up my old boyfriends that are long gon. I do not want to brake up with him but he's forceing me to. What should I do _(link)

Tell him matter of fact that your past is the past and you are with him now. Let him know you are with him for a reason and how special and important he is. Let him know you no longer discuss your past boyfriends as you have moved on.

Point blank it is not his business anyways but get that across tactfully. I would tell him to chuck his insecurity as he would never be compared to those who came before him. I think that latter point is what bothers him. He feels inadequate and as though he will be compared to them.

If you feel this will cause a breakup if his behavior continues tell him how you feel. Hopefully, you will be on the same page as eachother once you do.

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Thanks for that advice. I will try it

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