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I'm Steph. I love helping people and I have a great interest in music, I play the piano well and I hope to be a vet nurse one day. I am easy to trust and whatever you say to me personally will be strictly confidential. Thanks for reading! :) x

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okay me and my boyfriend matt have been going out for almost three months.. i really think just making out is getting boring for him but since hes sucha gentleman hes not gonna say anything, if i want to give him a handjob, what should i do? just put my hand down his pants? it seems like there should be more to it? i dont know its my first one! and when he fingers me.. does he like go inside my pants or is it like.. over my jeans? im really confused on all of the second base junk. HELP? please!

Him to you: Why not hold his hand and guide it down there and apply pressure which you're happy with. Also, you could hint by unzipping your jeans and then doing it.
You to him: When making out, guide your hand down his chest and unzip his pants. TALK to him though, that's really important and ask him what you can do to make the experience more pleasureable for him.
Remember, don't do things just because he may be getting bored of just making out, make sure you're comfortable 100% of the time!
x Steph x

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(Rating: 5) wow that really helped, thanks alottt :)
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